A writing tablet for my thoughts
29 Aug
There’s a big conference nearby occuring over Labor Day weekend. This is not to be confused with a similarly titled conference with an entirely different purpose.
It appears that only about 20 are going from here. This means, of course, that we’ll have regular service over the holiday. I decided to ask why folks are not going. I also asked a few that are going the reasons they are attending.
The number one stated reason for not going was expense. Most of that expense being gasoline, but also eating out with the family for a few meals, and the conference fee. One person remarked how they could easily spend $500 for the entire weekend.
The second stated reason for not attending was that it was not a ‘kid-friendly’ experience. Husbands and wives do not get to attend much of the conference together and one of them is always with their children. One person expressed a desire to have conference organized more like this one in Dallas.
A friend and I talked for a bit about having our own conference and having it be kid-friendly. I think it would be great. Would anyone attend? It’s still expensive to travel for gasoline.
The number one reason that people expressed a desire to go was fellowship. This was either personal fellowship with folks they know, or fellowship for the sake of their children. Teen camp occurred recently and many teen parents are attending, in part, so that their teen children can see their friends.
The number two reason for attending was to find out about other ICoC churches. There was an expressed interest in how others handle specific issues.
Note
This is not a scientific survey. It is entirely possible that what me and others discussed is not reflective of the entire church I attend. I just thought it was interesting.
7 Responses for "Kid-Friendly Conferences"
I’m not going because I don’t respect the speakers and do not wish to be subjected to motivational speeches–depth has never been a strong point at conferences.
yes, Dallas/Texas has come a long way in recognizing the needs of the kids (and the parents’ need to be able to focus on the classes and fellowship) since the days of babysitting kids in a hotel room.
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RH: I don’t want to hear the speakers, either. Then again, I didn’t last year, but it was a good opportunity to talk to some upper eschelon folks. I guess the two of us are outnumbered in a sense.
Overall, I still think we could pull off something with some depth. Get one or two outside speakers (and not sensationalize that aspect) and we could have something. It doesn’t have to be big and have folks come from all over the country, just something well-thought out and with a real message instead of a pep-rally feel.
Hmmmmmm…… (sound of wheels turning)
dude you know i do not want to here the speakers either. i also do not want to end up being the chauffeur of a bunch of teen again. but the ride home last year was nice with you and Laryssa.
I don’t see much difference between the two events regarding kids. Both will have classes for the teen and pre-teens. The Texas program will have a drop-off program for 0-3 year olds, and parents who use it must sign up for 1 1/2 hr service there. Neither mention what will be available for kids ages 4-9. Help me out — why do you feel that one is more kid-friendly than the other? What am I missing?
I was thinking of the age 4-10 program. They have something to do all day. In Kansas City, there is childcare all day, but one of the parents has to be with the child. The latter is child friendly in that there is a place to play and have fun with one of the parents. The former is child friendly in that they get to participate in an event without their parents necessarily being present. (Though I might be tempted to be there all day instead of the sessions. Songs, food, etc…)
The one thing I would change is having more ‘together’ sessions and not being separate from spouse and children all weekend. But that’s just me, when I need separation from spouse and child, I do something different than go to a conference.
Hope that helps. FWIW, I agree that if its age 0-3, there’s not much difference
The Bethlehem village actually sounds pretty cool. Yeah, I think I’d like to do it too